Even, Steady Management—I have seen many families shipwrecked through overmanagement on the part of their head, whereas through consultation and agreement all might have moved off harmoniously and well. (AH 310.1) MC VC

Unsteadiness in family government is productive of great harm, in fact is nearly as bad as no government at all. The question is often asked, “Why are the children of religious parents so often headstrong, defiant, and rebellious?” The reason is to be found in the home training. Too often the parents are not united in their family government. (AH 310.2) MC VC

A fitful government—at one time holding the lines firmly, and at another allowing that which has been condemned—is ruination to a child. (AH 310.3) MC VC

Mutual Law for Parents and Children—God is our Lawgiver and King, and parents are to place themselves under His rule. This rule forbids all oppression from parents and all disobedience from children. The Lord is full of lovingkindness, mercy, and truth. His law is holy, just, and good, and must be obeyed by parents and children. The rules which should regulate the lives of parents and children flow from a heart of infinite love, and God’s rich blessing will rest upon those parents who administer His law in their homes, and upon the children who obey this law. The combined influence of mercy and justice is to be felt. “Mercy and truth are met together; righteousness and peace have kissed each other.” Psalm 85:10. Households under this discipline will walk in the way of the Lord, to do justice and judgment. (AH 310.4) MC VC